How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 04:00
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do women really cheat more than men?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What I need from you?
Have you ever had your crush reject you, and then later you all dated and married?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why do I feel worthless most of the time?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Is it normal to hate my dog, but feel too guilty to get rid of him?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do wives cheat with black guys?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Did another parent ever tell you something about your child that you didn’t know?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why does my mother care about my sister more than me?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Does not procrastinate.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.